Anwar Al-Quran

Verses 233–235

2. Al-Baqara · The Cow

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۞ وَٱلْوَٰلِدَٰتُ يُرْضِعْنَ أَوْلَٰدَهُنَّ حَوْلَيْنِ كَامِلَيْنِ ۖ لِمَنْ أَرَادَ أَن يُتِمَّ ٱلرَّضَاعَةَ ۚ وَعَلَى ٱلْمَوْلُودِ لَهُۥ رِزْقُهُنَّ وَكِسْوَتُهُنَّ بِٱلْمَعْرُوفِ ۚ لَا تُكَلَّفُ نَفْسٌ إِلَّا وُسْعَهَا ۚ لَا تُضَآرَّ وَٰلِدَةٌۢ بِوَلَدِهَا وَلَا مَوْلُودٌۭ لَّهُۥ بِوَلَدِهِۦ ۚ وَعَلَى ٱلْوَارِثِ مِثْلُ ذَٰلِكَ ۗ فَإِنْ أَرَادَا فِصَالًا عَن تَرَاضٍۢ مِّنْهُمَا وَتَشَاوُرٍۢ فَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْهِمَا ۗ وَإِنْ أَرَدتُّمْ أَن تَسْتَرْضِعُوٓا۟ أَوْلَٰدَكُمْ فَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْكُمْ إِذَا سَلَّمْتُم مَّآ ءَاتَيْتُم بِٱلْمَعْرُوفِ ۗ وَٱتَّقُوا۟ ٱللَّهَ وَٱعْلَمُوٓا۟ أَنَّ ٱللَّهَ بِمَا تَعْمَلُونَ بَصِيرٌۭ

2:233Mothers shall suckle their children for two full years—that for such as desire to complete the suckling—and on the father shall be their maintenance and clothing, in accordance with honourable norms. No soul is to be tasked except according to its capacity: neither the mother shall be made to suffer harm on her child’s account, nor the father on account of his child, and on the [father’s] heir devolve [duties and rights] similar to that. And if the couple desire to wean with mutual consent and consultation, there will be no sin upon them. And if you want to have your children wet-nursed, there will be no sin upon you so long as you pay what you give in accordance with honourable norms, and be wary of Allah and know that Allah watches what you do.12

وَٱلَّذِينَ يُتَوَفَّوْنَ مِنكُمْ وَيَذَرُونَ أَزْوَٰجًۭا يَتَرَبَّصْنَ بِأَنفُسِهِنَّ أَرْبَعَةَ أَشْهُرٍۢ وَعَشْرًۭا ۖ فَإِذَا بَلَغْنَ أَجَلَهُنَّ فَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْكُمْ فِيمَا فَعَلْنَ فِىٓ أَنفُسِهِنَّ بِٱلْمَعْرُوفِ ۗ وَٱللَّهُ بِمَا تَعْمَلُونَ خَبِيرٌۭ

2:234As for those of you who die leaving wives, they shall wait by themselves four months and ten days, and when they complete their term, there will be no sin upon you in respect of what they may do with themselves in accordance with honourable norms. And Allah is well aware of what you do.3

وَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْكُمْ فِيمَا عَرَّضْتُم بِهِۦ مِنْ خِطْبَةِ ٱلنِّسَآءِ أَوْ أَكْنَنتُمْ فِىٓ أَنفُسِكُمْ ۚ عَلِمَ ٱللَّهُ أَنَّكُمْ سَتَذْكُرُونَهُنَّ وَلَٰكِن لَّا تُوَاعِدُوهُنَّ سِرًّا إِلَّآ أَن تَقُولُوا۟ قَوْلًۭا مَّعْرُوفًۭا ۚ وَلَا تَعْزِمُوا۟ عُقْدَةَ ٱلنِّكَاحِ حَتَّىٰ يَبْلُغَ ٱلْكِتَٰبُ أَجَلَهُۥ ۚ وَٱعْلَمُوٓا۟ أَنَّ ٱللَّهَ يَعْلَمُ مَا فِىٓ أَنفُسِكُمْ فَٱحْذَرُوهُ ۚ وَٱعْلَمُوٓا۟ أَنَّ ٱللَّهَ غَفُورٌ حَلِيمٌۭ

2:235There is no sin upon you in what you may hint in proposing to [recently widowed] women, or what you may secretly cherish within your hearts. Allah knows that you will be thinking of them, but do not make troth with them secretly, unless you say honourable words, and do not resolve on a marriage tie until the prescribed term is complete. Know that Allah knows what is in your hearts, so beware of Him; and know that Allah is all-forgiving, all-forbearing.

Tafsir

Commentary on this passage

Verse 233

1.This ayat is very brief but difficult. In the beginning marrying the mothers denote those women who are given revocable divorce. Only the maintenance of these women is obligatory. After irrevocable divorce the woman is entitled only to the compensation for suckling the child and nothing else. After this there is mention of prohibition of not torturing through the children which the jurisprudents explain that the mother should not be troubled by taking away the child. The commentators say that by refusing to suckle the child the father must not be troubled. But the fact is that by reading both the sentences we realize two points that neither the husband has the right nor the wife to make the child a means to take revenge from each other. In the end the heir is also a passive, that the heir of the father is the child and the mother so to whom would he pay the compensation? And maintenance of the heir of the son is not obligatory, only compensation is wajib. Thus some people think that the Taweel of one of the two words is necessary. Either the word heir or the word of mithle dhalik. Allah knows best.

Verse 234

2.This order is for non-pregnant women. The Iddah of the pregnant women is till the delivery which is mentioned in the following ayats and there is no reduction in it.

Verse 235

3.In the Iddah of death other men can give them a clear indication so that they may not accept the proposal of someone else. They may take a promise from them so that they will not marry anyone else after the Iddah. Or to hint to them that they intend to marry them or continue to make plans to themselves. Islam has allowed the last two conditions, and prohibited the first three provided one means what he says otherwise the last two conditions will also be difficult.

Footnotes

Explanations of words and phrases in these verses

  1. 1

    The period of two years is optional. There can be increase or decrease of one or two months in this. The benefit of limitation will become apparent in case of dispute.

  2. 2

    Mutarruf is the quality of compensation, which should be given to the mother alone. If she demands more he should search for another woman and make Allah as a witness of this.

  3. 3

    In the Islamic Shariat make up and embellishment is not allowed for a woman who is observing the iddah of death (period of the four months after the death of her husband). There is no harm if she does this kind of appropriate thing after the iddah and neither anyone has the right to object to her.